Thursday, April 10, 2014

What the World Taught Me About My Neighborhood




I grew up in a family that passionately values the world. From an early age my parents made it a priority that I cultivated an understanding of the world, and I am grateful for opportunities they gave me to see and experience it. Whether we brought gifts to the homeless shelters at Christmas, had representatives from every continent sitting around our Thanksgiving table year to year, or took off as a family to spend the summer in Vietnam, building unique relationships became part of who we were as a family and shaped my worldview. There is a greater depth of understanding that takes place when young people are exposed to these aspects of the kingdom that extends beyond a cultural experience. Here are the five most significant things that the world has taught me about my own neighborhood;

1. The significance of the family unit- as a human race, we naturally create families. Every tribe, every faith background, every culture builds itself around the dynamic and structure of the family unit. This is an extension of God’s design of the kingdom and the body of Christ. Nothing is more critical than identifying the common factors that we have with one another, because these are the foundations for building relationships and promoting peace among nations and individuals.

2. Poverty is a mindset more than anything – As I have cultivated relationships with individuals representing every socioeconomic class, I’ve realized that the poverty mentality can serve as a crippling stronghold, though every person living under the poverty line does not exhibit the hindrances that this mindset nurtures. Some of the most generous people I have ever met have the least amount of physical resources, but give everything they have with a spirit of gratitude. They realize that the gifts they have to give may not be costly by the world’s standards, but have eternal value. Seeing impoverished parts of the world both locally and abroad has shown me that money has so little to do with the richness of our lives.

3. True World Changers- A characteristic that I’ve observed from the influential leaders that I have come into contact with is that their humility and unassuming nature commands respect more than any other character trait. The sign of a great leader is someone who values their relationships with others above their own self-promotion, hears and obeys God, and remains faithful to their passion and purpose. We can and should learn from every person we come into contact with, as everyone is an expert in his or her own personal experience.

4. We are all Hungry- I've learned that people on the other side of the world and people right next-door seek to fulfill the same human needs. We satisfy our hunger in the same way, in fact sharing food together is a significant relationship building experience. I believe it is our responsibility to connect to one another as technology progresses and allows us to do so more today than ever before. Taking advantage of avenues such as social media to keep up with the world is not just about staying relevant, but it is the practice of good stewardship. Every person has the desire to be known, and to belong. When Christians, live out their identity in Christ as the true expression of who He made them to be, they gravitate toward others, because their heart’s response is to serve.



5. You don’t have to get on a plane to experience the world- this is especially true where I live. Though I have had the opportunity to travel, so much of my understanding and view of the world has been established by the cultural exposure that my parents incorporated into our family values. We had an exchange student live with us for several years who I call my brother. As a kid I was less enthusiastic about going to Haltom City to eat traditional Vietnamese food on the weekends to make him feel at home, but I now I realize how significant those repetitive experiences were for me to interact with other cultures. When my fiancĂ© suggested a pho restaurant on our second date without any clues, he had my heart! It’s not just a matter of nostalgia, but it’s about the connection and access to culture within our own city. I remember when my dad met a waiter in a restaurant one day from another part of the world and started a friendship with him. He spent many holidays with us. The opportunities we have to live a life of diversity are vast, and we should always take advantage of them if we want to understand the world!

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