Wednesday, March 27, 2013

5 ways to maintain authenticity in an artificial world



I have been giving a significant amount of thought to the impact that social media has on our society and the integral role it has played on the development of subcultures. Just today I was motivated by the following tweet:

 “If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it”
 -Margaret Fuller

Inspiring, isn’t it? Our specific life journey provides us with some level of expertise in particular areas, and often we feel the obligation to share our insights with the world. God moves us to share what he has put on our heart with conviction, and I do not think we should hold back in this instance. However, sometimes it would be in our best interest to check our motives for sharing and acting to preserve authenticity in our social media consumed culture.

  1. Keep a journal- I should listen to my own advice here. Something I have always admired about my Dad is his discipline to journaling. Yes he keeps a blog, but he spends personal worship time with God every morning and devotes a portion of that time to writing (with a pen…on paper….made from trees) about things that God is teaching him. These thoughts are not blasted on social media or beautifully constructed to impress a reader. We are putting our identity at risk when we fail to process what is in the depths of our hearts.

  1. Be the light when you write, don’t start a fight- What is it about the attitude of cynicism that has become so sought after (especially within my generation)? It always turns me off when someone devotes an entire article to how an organization, church, leader is going about something ALL wrong. FINE! Let them be wrong. Don’t spend your time being critical of their ineffective methods; just show us how to do it right! 

  1. Develop relationships with mentors of all flavors- This is critical if you want to impact your city, and the world. Recently I’ve become so grateful for the variety of people that God has positioned around me to learn from, ranging from all backgrounds, social classes, and ethnicities. From their own unique point of view, they help me to perceive the world from a different perspective. Be ready to LEARN from everyone you come in contact with, you aren’t above them because your circumstances are different. This is a preventative practice from becoming suffocated in a subculture and losing sight of the rest of the world.

  1. Let God’s word and the Holy Spirit inspire your spiritual thoughts- Sadly I have found myself thinking in 140 characters or less while I am driving down the road. God wants to impart such a greater depth of wisdom into us than we allow ourselves to receive. It’s amazing what God will reveal to you when you read the scriptures with an open heart. Don’t worry, it will be just as profound and clever as the tweet you have been thinking about writing for the last hour! What is the point of impressing others in our own religious circles with these revelations that we think are so brilliant? As Bob would say “people are goin’ to hell!”

  1. Accept your unique circumstances- At times when we battle feelings of inferiority, believing that we don’t measure up, it’s because we are using a worldly measuring stick! God created you in his image with specific gifts, talents, and abilities to accomplish his will for your life. No one else can do what He has equipped you to do in the way that he has created YOU to do it. When you understand how specific his intentions were in creating you, it is easier to embrace your circumstances, your identity, and the journey that you are walking. It’s not always about climbing a latter, but taking the next step.